How to flirt online
|Are you ready to
jump into the online dating game? With 50
million active subscribers to dating services in
the U.S., you just can't overlook this
opportunity if you are single.
Once you enter this wide web of daters, what can
you write in emails to entice your top picks to
share coffee talk with you? What are the secrets
to flirting online?
When jumping online, use these 3 Online Flirting
Success Keys and 10 Email Enticers that can help
you get to first dates faster.
These advice tips are based on hundreds of
interviews with active internet daters for my
book, SMART Man Hunting -How to Get Out There,
Get Dates, and Get Mr. Right (or Ms. Right).
3 Online Flirting Success Keys:
1. Keep it Simple: Use light-hearted emails with an
upbeat tone to attract dates online. A 40-something female
painter shared, " Make your responses simple and use easy
questions in your emails to flirt." There is no need for long
emails either. A 42-year-old Accountant told me, "I can tell if
I am interested in 3-4 sentences."
2. Humor is your Ally: A 35-year-old male film editor
from Baltimore told me, "It depends on the person. You need to
be able to read the person to tell what kind of humor you can
get away with. Humor is definitely sexy and so is confidence
because girls pick that up."
3. Hand out Compliments: One of the best ways to flirt
online is to extend a sincere compliment. One 28-year-old
Financial Analyst told me, "I always try to say something
subtle, but sincere." You might say to someone who plays the
guitar, "I think it is awesome that you play guitar." She added,
"Be sincere and don't throw out phony baloney."